Couples Counseling

Couples Counseling

Are you and your partner stuck having the same argument every night? Do you feel like the you and your partner are drifting apart? Do you desire more intimacy in your marriage?

Partners frequently report feeling the relationship has lost its spark, that they argue about the same thing with no resolution, and that they are living more like roommates than lovers. A desire for affirmation, appreciation, and care can contribute to a couples’ disconnection and disengagement. In this state of disconnection, the partners are each unable to give what the other needs.

Many marriage / relationship problems originate in unfulfilled expectations or unmet needs of the partners. Conflict and withdrawal from one another can result, adding to the couple’s dissatisfaction with the relationship and increasing feelings of disconnection.

Relationship distress is a circle without beginning and with no definite end, but these patterns can be improved with some support and work.

Some issues that bring couples to therapy are:

  • Balance (Work/Life/Family)
  • Blended Families
  • Chronic Illness
  • Divorce
  • Extended Family Members Interfering
  • Infidelity/Cheating
  • Lack of Intimacy
  • Anxiety or Depression
  • Habitual Pornography Use
  • Differences in Sexual Appetite

During marriage counseling with WholeHeart Counseling, you’ll be given concrete action steps to improve your relationship. You’ll be challenged to evaluate your part in your relational dance. We’ll  identify and confront your typical relationship patterns as each of you learns to show up as a mature, healthy partner.

You and your partner will learn skills that will help you communicate your feelings, wants, and needs to your partner, and listening techniques that enhance your ability  to hear your partner’s perspective, too. We’ll integrate biblical principles into our exploration of your typical relationship patterns if you desire a spiritual perspective in your work.

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I would love to connect with you for a free 15-minute phone consultation if you still have questions.